Keeping that “I still choose you” energy alive is key in any relationship, whether you are newlyweds or total veterans. Flowers have been backing that energy up for centuries, and honestly, they still nail it every time. Fresh red roses (a dozen or more) on Valentine’s Day, recreating your wedding designs on anniversaries, or seasonal flowers on their birthday all make the heart sing. Now that your flower knowledge is on point, it is time to solve part two. When do you drop the surprise, and how do you do it so it gives main character vibes? That is where Dr. Gary Chapman’s famous love languages come into play, along with the newer seven romance styles. Their hobbies and interests are the final cheat code. At Whitfield’s Flowers in Hickory, North Carolina, we blend all that inspo to help you deliver unforgettable moments.

Pair Flowers with a Love Note, Poem, or Song Lyrics

In relationships, words are kind of the whole point, especially when your partner needs words of affirmation to feel seen. For them, the right sentence speaks directly to their soul. So when you plan a surprise to let your feels shine, your message has to be on point. Borrow a poem, quote the lyrics they always blast, or write a note that is pure, unfiltered you. Drop it into the card so it becomes a keepsake. Then level it up with a fresh floral design you know they’re into. The combo is chef’s kiss: Flowers catch their eye, and your words live rent-free in their heart.

Pick Them Up From Work with Flowers on the Passenger Seat

You can totally create a swoon worthy moment without draining your own battery. Start by popping up at their office right after work, bouquet of fresh, gorgeous blooms on the backseat. As they are still in shock (in the best way), let them know the bonus bits: The house situation is handled, chores are covered, the sitter is set, and the evening is 100 percent up to them. That kind of thoughtful setup hits different for practical partners or anyone who connects deeply with acts of service. It shows you actually see their workload and wanted to take some of it off their plate.

Plan an Adventurous Day Together

We’re all for love that shows up in little ways, like compliments, check-in texts, and daily kindness. But if your partner straight up gets the most joy from QT and shared experiences (especially fun activities), it’s definitely adventure season. Plan something amazing for just the two of you. You could wander through a UNESCO site together or road trip somewhere historic. Or, go full activity mode closer to home out on a boat (the actual best) or snowshoeing if it’s that perfect winter vibe. Beforehand, break the news in the cutest way possible: with colorful orchids delivered ahead of time. The bouquet can be a literal countdown, as every glance at those blooms reminds them something absolutely incredible is coming.

Brighten the Kitchen with Blooms While You Bake or Cook Together

Eating, cooking, and baking might not be on Gary Chapman’s list, but they’re absolutely a love language for some folks. If you happen to love a big-time foodie, a shared kitchen night is the perfect move. Set it all up beforehand like a boss: their favorite songs playing, sparkling counters, fresh blooms to set the mood, and all the ingredients prepped. When they come home, invite them into their dream scenario: teaching you how everything comes together. You’ll be chopping, spilling, and laughing the whole way through. Then you both get to eat the deliciousness. Finish the night by cleaning up so they don’t have to lift a finger.

Ensure They Have Fresh Stems All Year Long

Gift giving can low-key be stressful, even when you know your partner inside and out. You’re aiming for that “wow” reaction, but you also need to know it’ll land, especially if getting a gift is the way to their heart. Plus, you want the emotional support, not just clutter. That’s where flowers save the day. They’ve been sending the “I love you” message for actual centuries. Make it effortless and set up a monthly delivery from a neighborhood florist. Beautiful, fresh blooms show up like clockwork, and your sweetie gets to feel seen, supported, and loved 365.

Everyone wants to be adored, and flowers are the easiest way to say, “I see you and I love you.” With endless color stories and flower types, you can match their energy flawlessly. At Whitfield’s Flowers, we read the room and design arrangements that absolutely nail the moment for you, every time.